If anything I have learnt from my years of experience with family, boyfriend and friend is that love in one's life is always full of conditions. I tend to wonder if that is an actual love because love in every relationship should consist of no conditions. Isn't it true that one should be loved the way they are and one's flaws shouldn't shake the other person's love for him/her? All this unconditional love only tends to exists in movies, books or fantasies.
One is granted with the family they are born into, we are not allowed to pick and chose our family however we all do have the choice to pick the partner or boyfriend/girlfriend we desire to be involved in. Yet, that is easy said then done as there is an old saying, "Love is Blind" and usually women tend to be blinded by love much easily as when compared to men. There is a great quote by Barbara De Angelis, "A man's brain has a more difficult time shifting from thinking to feeling than a women's brain does."
Heart and love is a big joke in life that gives less pleasure and more pain. Love (unconditional love) forces one to bow down ensure the other person is happy, love makes one worry, loves makes one depressed.
If it wasn't for love this world will be far more bearable place to live.
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Love is nothing but a joke in one's view yet in other person's point of view love gives him/her the reason to survive. Love can make one strong and it can make one weak. Love can be a brutal joke played on one's heart or it can be the best thing that happen to oneself. All this depends on the person that one is in love with, it's upto that person if he/she wants to make love a priority or other materialistic and social rituals a priority.
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